I read a quote somewhere about how the definition of crazy is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.
If that's true then my X is CRRRRAAAAZZZZY. Oh yes, most certainly bonkers, nuts, whacked, psycho, fruity.... pick your favorite term.
He can't seem to figure out that not doing what the judge requires of you doesn't impress anyone. He can't seem to get it through his thick skull that the only person he's screwing over is himself. He spends all his time trying to find new ways to avoid having a mental evaluation by the GAL, and to cost me more money at the same time, and he's spent zero time doing the things required of him to see the kids.
So what's the real priority here? I think it's plain to see that it's not reconnecting with your children. It's all about punishing me in whatever way you can, and in general avoiding all responsibility while continuing to play the victim.
Good lord.... it's been over twice as long as the judge allowed for the GAL to be appointed and he's still causing delays and refusing to abide by her ruling in regards to his mental evaluations. And he still seems to think that all these delays will some how ensure he looks better in the eyes of the court? Huh?
Today my lawyer sent another firmly worded letter, sort of a "pooh or get off the pot" offer to sign the papers as we all originally agreed to back in June, or we will see you back in court on September 22nd.
I have zero faith that he'll see the light and do what he's supposed to.... but I can pray for a miracle right?!