A very wise man recently told me that "No" is a complete sentence.
I'm going to remember that. I'm going to practice saying it.
I'm going to give myself permission to NOT elaborate, explain, defend, or feel guilty for the use of this very important sentence. Especially when dealing with my former in-laws. MOST especially when I'm responding to my ex husband through my lawyer.
It's kind of scary... but I think I can do it!